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Snow White. · 13-02-2009, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Alive

Jess, I totally understand where you're coming from. I'm not one to post about when I've cut or whatever, but if I ever did, I don't think (perhaps looking back a few hours/days later) I'd appreciate the idea that people thought that it was okay that I've done what I have. I'd rather have people who asked me why I chose to take that action rather than basically just telling me, you know, it could be worse, don't worry about it.

I think this is a great point, and something that I try to reply with and I know many others do, too. Asking why you cut, why you've pruged, why you've taken drugs etc is the root to the problem, and the only way anyone si ever going to get some real, constructive support is through actually exploring the issues behind everything.

13-02-2009, 12:34 AM	#95
Snow White. I am a fairy. Join Date: May 2004 I am currently:	Quote: Originally Posted by Alive Jess, I totally understand where you're coming from. I'm not one to post about when I've cut or whatever, but if I ever did, I don't think (perhaps looking back a few hours/days later) I'd appreciate the idea that people thought that it was okay that I've done what I have. I'd rather have people who asked me why I chose to take that action rather than basically just telling me, you know, it could be worse, don't worry about it. I think this is a great point, and something that I try to reply with and I know many others do, too. Asking why you cut, why you've pruged, why you've taken drugs etc is the root to the problem, and the only way anyone si ever going to get some real, constructive support is through actually exploring the issues behind everything.