I agree with most of what you have said Jess. I disagree with some things and what have you but mostly the point that Heidi Tiger raised about saying it's ok or it will be ok to reassure people shouldn't that be encouraged becasue by doing that surely people are not going to get stuck in the vicious circle of omg i did this si and its so bad i hate myself so im going to do it more... becasue i think that one of the major keys to recovering is breaking that circle to begin with. However what you said about people saying where to si and stuff yeah I agree that's wrong because people who do scratch or whatever are going to go onto do worse si the you end up with a bigger problem.
I'm not trying to argue here I'm just trying to make a point and say my opinion.. sorry if i offended anyone
Dianne
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