I totaly understand, when I told one friend and when I try and talk to him about it he says, he cant talk to me about it cause something like that doesnt even cross his mind and hes a close friend.
Others tut at me when they see ive done it, that know that i do and really feels like they are looking down on me.
But the guy I just started seeing whos my ex and didnt know I did it before this time we started seeing each other said that he really really wants me to stop and he wants to be there for me and when he cant be here pysicaly he tells me he understands how hard it is and that i cant just stop, he also said that he would take them off me but we came to the deal that ill let him check my arms!
I think you never can understand something unless you do go through it and you do find people who really dont understand but then the other people who really want to help you through it.
I think it also depends what type of person they are!
Sorry dont know if this is much help!
god bless
vicky
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