Originally Posted by
Target Dawn
When my mother and her long term partner split up (they weren't married though) there was quite a lot of them insulting each other, blaming the other person for the break up, talking about the others mistakes and imperfections etc. Then again, this break up was on nasty terms so if your parents are more accepting of what is happening, there might not be as much of that. However there still might be arguements, probably over you and who you are going to live with etc. Just remember though that none of this is your fault and you don't have to take sides or make any decisions about where you will stay/how often you will see each parent straight away. All this is best discussed when people have calmed down.
If you are confused about the situation and are worried about what's going to happen, then don't hesistate to talk to your parents about it. Just because they may not be on good terms with each other at the moment it doesn't mean that they wont want to talk to you about what's going on, why decisions are being made etc.
Take care.