those people are wrong about what they think of you. & even so, to be honest (although i don't know what happened) they probably weren't thinking of you as an individual but more just as somebody to take advantage of.. as bad as it sounds, it could have been anyone & they were wrong for doing that but it wasn't your fault & you did nothing to encourage something like that, there is nothing ANYONE could do to encourage something like that i don't think.
maybe you should try speaking to your tutor etc about this? especially if you think you are falling behind on work, that could help to relieve some of the pressure that you feel.
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