If you are given no choice, then what you say doesn't matter. If you had said no, it would have still happened. The lack of a meaningful choice means that there is no choice. And rape is about power and consent. In that situation, I would say that it is rape.
Boyfriends have no rights over their SO's body. You have no rights over his body. You can compromise on that a bit (condoms, cleanliness, hygene, bc) but in the end it is still your choice and it is his choice. He had no right to force himself on you.
Legally, it is still rape, even though it is hard to prove.
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