Hi Dragonfly
It is rape as far as I am concerned if he pushes you to give in, although it may be dificult to prove in a court of law, it is still morally, rape, to knowingly push someone to engage in sex whey they don't want to.
If he does not have the mentality to realise that then he is no better that a rutting animal. What a selfish ******** your boyfriend is, what a bloody insensitive pig.
I am a man who has felt strong physical passion for women, and I am certain I would be horrified if a woman or girlfriend ever told me I forced or coerced her into sex. They have sex with me because they want to and thats what thrills me.
Taking what was his, utter bollocks, a boyfriend has no such "rights" , who brainwashes girls to even think that way, was equal rights and womens liberation in vain for people to even think that in the 21st century, suddenly its 1809. I cannot think of any of my male mates who believe in such outdated bullshit.
Sex is a way of showing affection, of giving to each other, not a power struggle, he is a stupid little boy, not a man, and does not deserve you
As for "duties" its supposed to be a pleasurable experience for both of you, if not, then its ugly, abusive, definitly a form of bullying, and if he does not recognise that and change his ways (he doesn't not know the meaning of respect so I won't use that word) you should dump his sorry ass and find someone who does.
Sorry for using strong language but I am fed up of girls being used like this, I feel no connection with such cretinous men, its like they are a different species to me
Go with your gut instincts, you are right, and don't let yourself be a doormat, if he threatens to leave you because you want your feelings to be considered, jump for joy
Good Luck Siluryman
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