hey hun,
when I was seeing her (year ago), I have had my counsellor pretty much say this to me. She didn't ask me but it was when we were about to break up for holidays and she said to me that the cutting seems the safer option so I should do that instead.
I felt really strange about it too and wondered all of the above, but then I suppose I realised where she was coming from.
What yours is saying is that although cutting is not a good behaviour, it is less harmful than the purging - so overall, you are safer. You can see where she's coming from right?
Though I'm still not sure how to feel about it, sorry for the ramble!
Take care <3 xxx
|