You ask why does it have to be so hard? I don't know to be honest, life just is. It tries to make things as difficult as possible for most people and it seems like a test, to see if we can survive. Like with that show survivor, other beings might be watching us to see who leaves next. Anyway, if you got a piercing because you wanted to hurt yourself like Irene said, it's self harm. If you like getting piercings then maybe you should use them as rewards for when you don't SI for 2 weeks/a month (whatever time you want).
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