Your mom is acting out in fear right now because she probably doesn't understand what exactly you are doing which is normal reaction. She probably feels helpless and that was why she at first wanted to send you away. I know how scary this must be right now with your secrets being put out in the open but if you keep talking to her and explain it to her she may understand. Right now she is acting on fear and guiltiness, she may feel it is her fault.
I do think you should at least try to not cut or self injure for a while to reframe from making her more scared.
Send me a message if you need someone to talk to. I know being found out sucks.
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