hi, i've just read all your posts, sounds quite similar to what me and my now ex went thru! tho i let him walk all over me, treat me like ****, and me do all the running for 6 years!
just wanted to say go you! well done for standing up for yourself, and going for the changes! its hard, but it is quite empowering. i hope he steps up. mine didnt, but i think i left it way too long to change anything.
i think the cant be ****ed attitude, can often have something to do with being stoned, i dont know how much your guy smokes, but mine was constantly stoned.
so really hope it works out for the best. and well done for standing up for yourself i think thats a really hard thing to do, so well done! xxx
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