Why should "people like us" not have kids?
Yes we may have more difficult times than others,but on the other hand we are teaching our kids everything in life is not like the fairy tales....there are ups and downs with everything.
We can be just a great of a parent as one who puts their kid in daycare from the moment they are born.
Kids need love and not about much more but the basics.
Sure we have our down times but I think kids get adjusted to that
They learn not everything is butterflies and roses.
It teaches them coping skills, and lets them be alittle more independent at times.
AAANNNDDD then.....if they do have problems, it should be very easy to deal with them and know the best path to take.
Someday you will look back at all of this and think..."HOW THE HELL DID I EVER MAKE IT OUT ALIVE"
Good luck, keep moving forward, things will fall together sooner than expected.
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