My (kind of) boyfriend has known me since I was about 13, so he's had 6years of the whole SI thing, and I think that if it bothered him, then he wouldn't have got into a relationship with me. I mean, I don't think it's his favourite thing, and he really doesn't like it if I have new cuts, but he's so good about it all. I think the thing is, having known me for so long, he's seen it at its worst, he's dealt with kind of the whole fallout from SI and so scars are a really minor consideration.
I think, with other people though, I would be really worried, although, generally I think I'd probably be quite drunk, but fortunately I don't have to worry about that at the mo.
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