i woudl suggest lightly letting him down, just say politely that you are involved with someone else, or just aren't interested. i agree with euphoria about the idea of doing nice things for yourself, when i dont feel special, i just aside a what I call "lazy" day. i get a bunch of my favorite food, a good book, and plop on the ouch and just lounge around. it doesnt change things but it does make me feel better sometimes
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