i take it you talked to her either by txt or via the internet from the way you phrased this? maybe talk to her in person if this is possible and just tell her what you've said here, that you dont expect answers just reassurance and to know someone cares.
i'm sorry this time of year is difficult for you bbut i certainly think talking about your feelings is a good idea and better than bottling the up.
take care
*hugs*
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