Do you ever feel that you cant live upto your own standards? Maybe you have set them to high for yourself.. Absolutely NOBODY is perfect at all. Why do you feel that you have to be perfect? Is it for yourself or is it to please other people and what their thoughts of you are? It will be hard at first but please try to accept yourself and feel comfortable with the way you look. Comparing yourself to others isnt good. I know this may sound impossibe and it took me a few years to reach this conclusion by myself!
I agree that society is totally flawed. People are made to feel selfconcious and unhappy with their own body and appearance all because of some skinny stereotype celebrities. I also agree with talaxy when he says guys prefer girls with a bit of meat on them.. Its true ya know!
Suicide is not the only answer. Please talk to a person you trust about the way you feel! Your dad is probably just extremely worried about you and wants you to be happy. If you are ever contemplating suicide please just post here and let people know how you feel. It can really help to talk things through.
Feel free to PM me if you ever need to talk k?
Stay safe.
Zoe xx
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