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Hey
You hit the nail on the head about society, in the last few years there has been this daft obsession with being skinny and I'm glad to say that i think we are all starting to wake up and realise that it isnt what most men want. Imagine you see two women jog down the street, 1 is stick think with nothing to her, the other has some meat on her bones an is filling out her running shorts, which of the two do you think men will be attracted to?
Its easy yet unhealthy in life to define your self woth by one thing. Im 24 and I recently came out of about 4 and a half years of back to back relationships, 1 girl then another. Now they both have new boyfriends and I'm sat on my own. I started to value myself by the fact that i was single. Then it hit me that it really doesnt matter, I mostly dont miss the relationships now and i can enjoy myself. I simply looked to other things in life i can value myself by without needing to compare myself to others.
I think the same can go for you, you sound like your striving to achieve a magazine girl appearence, is it really what men find attractive? I mostly dont think so, especialy this skinny crap, its horrible in my eyes. There is far more to life than looks and deffinitly alot more to relationships than looks! If you need to be good looking to attract and keep a partner then what kind of person are you with? Not one i'd wana be with! Sorry to rant but on a final not if your profile picture is actually of you and looks mattered even half as much as you think then you really do have nothing to worry about.
Please dont do anything stupid.
Matt
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