With your first situation I just want to say well done for recognising that what was happening is a form of bullying and that you're willing to do something about it. And I also think it's a very selfless thing you're doing by taking into consideration these two other girls that you don't even like that much.
So firstly, yes, leaving them out is a form of bullying and it wouldn't make them feel particually great if they found out your group of friends were leaving them out on purpose. May I ask why you don't like these two girls? Do you not know them that well, or is it something else? And I hate to say it, but by standing up to your friends in saying it is wrong and being the good person in the group will more than likely cause them to fall out with you, or turn on you. However, you have a choice. Either keep your friends but by doing that being a bully yourself, or be the good person and defend the two girls but risk being turned on yourself. Both options have good and bad sides, but it's up to you which you choose. I'd encourage you to be the good person, but sometimes friendships are more important.
Your second situation requires communication. Talk to this girl and work out what it is about you she has a problem with. Try to be civil, and not do what she does back at her. If that doesn't work, try to ignore it. Easier said than done, but it'll benefit you in the future.
I'm glad you have someone at school you can talk to, and I really help everything gets sorted. Take care of yourself, and PM me anytime.
Sarah x
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