BlueB,
Your therapist may be suprised you didn't tell him, but we really doubt he will think you are a bad person or hate you for it. If you told him about your contradicting feelings surrounding the issues we're sure he will understand...
If you are this worried about the girl, then maybe it would be a good idea, it sounds like it is tormenting you.
I don't see why they would think you were lying, what would you gain from the situation?
Your father deserves to be betrayed, he deserves to be punished. But the choice about if and when is yours.
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