Thats very true. I am moving on and I have totally cut him out of my life, though his mum and my mum are really good friends so I will still see his mum but its not that bad, at least I dont have to see him anymore. I used to think that it was my fault that he did those things to me because I felt I was weak and I should have said no, but now I realise that it was his fault and even on the occasions when I did say no, he still carried on so I know now that he is to blame and not me. I dont hold a grudge against him so Im not wasting my emotional health thinking about him and what he did. I dont really think much about him anymore, I have just come to accept that it happened, I cant change that, but now I can move on from him, Im not living in the past anymore.
Thanks for the advice, much appreciated.
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