i'm not sure of any resources, hopefully someone will know. i guess every part of me is screaming not to let him in contact with your daughter. but that's my issue. i think if he wants to be with you and your daughter he needs to try and move on from how painful it is for him, and think about your daughter, and whoever it was he abused. that might sound harsh, but unless he massively reduces the risk by talking to someone about what happened and being assessed, i could never trust him. i know it must be painful for him, but it's certainly best for your child (who should come first), and it will also be best for you, and for him too. xxx
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