I understand that it may hurt you to see them do what they do, but then some people may not always want help and that has to be taken into consideration.
Have you tried talking to them about the reasons why they take these drugs and how they started? How it makes them feel after they take them and if that is a bad experience why do they do that? You can also ask questions such as have they ever tried to stop before, if so, how did that go and would they be willing to try again? That is, if you and they are willing to talk about the situation(s). And as much as you maybe willing to listen, they may not want to talk because the path leading up to the use of drugs could have been a very painful one. Therefore, make sure it is in their own time and their conditions, give them the opportunity to talk when they feel ready because pushing them to talk could damage the friendship or break the trust they have for you.
You may not feel up for all of that so what else you can do is give them some links to support sites and any support systems that are in place within the local area. Letting them know you do care about them and the potential effects that drugs may have on them. Though more than likely they have heard all of the effects before so try not to sound as though you are preaching, as it will simply sound as though you're been judgemental and i am sure you wont be. Just been there for them is very often all you can do.
I hope they get the help they need, PM me anytime.
*hugs*
Take Care,
Josh
xxx
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