Originally Posted by
atropine
in fairness if your question had just been relationships id have still said no. i cant understand why youd want to be in a long relationship so young - it SCARES me, asnd im a girl lol. i couldnt - i live with a girl who has been with her boyfriend for almost 3 years and they talk about marriage and shes only 20 - and i can get my head around it (shes one of these people with a plan) - i like to wind her up and say - what if your not married by 30, worlds of fun!
i think its kinda sad that people are always in relationships - thats my problem that i dont want to be with someone because im not into co-dependence, i couldnt stand needing or having someone need to phone or text them all the time, or be with them so many times a week. i want to be one - NOT a couple. and i find it really sad that friends of mine are always looking for someone, always go out on the pull because they cant be alone. theres so much more to life than that other person.
I live with my partner but we're not co-dependant. Sure i'm happier with him next to me or near me but if he's not I don't collapse in hysterics. lol
I have been in a relationship where the guys were like that though and it was so unhealthy... i couldn't break up with them becasue i was scared of what they would do if I did! So I can see where you're coming from kinda as well!
I think when you're witht the right person, both of you become better people.