Hi :)
Can/do you orgasm during masturbation? Either with just your hands or with a vibrator? When you have sex does your partner spend a lot of time stimulating your clitoris, or is it basically just penetration?
It took me about 6 months of extremely hard work to even orgasm through oral stimulation on my clit, and then longer to be able to orgasm every now and then through penetrative sex [woman on top, so that you can stimulate your clit at the same time as bouncing up and down].
Keep trying, and it'll happen :) If you can orgasm yourself, then get your partner to watch you do it. You can even turn it into a sex-game where-by he's "spying" on you playing with yourself, so it doesn't seem so "this is what I want you to do" for him.
Hope this helps.
Chelsea xxx
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