It's not a good thing for a anyone to threaten anyone else. That's just plain not cool. It's not good, it's not right, and it's definately not normal in that case.
Your friends probably just aren't understanding why this is such a big deal for you. You said that he throws a huge scene or a fit every weekend, they're probably just thinking this is an extension or whatever. It doesn't bother them because they've never really been threatened, they've never had someone follow through on their threats.
You need to talk to them. Sometimes people can know something but they won't extrapolate other things from that.
I'm sorry that your friends haven't supported you about being threatened by this man, but could you talk to them and get one of them to talk to this man? The way you describe his behavior makes him sound very unreasonable and childish. Normal adults do not throw fits or threaten people. He needs someone to have a little chat with him to tell him that, or to remind him.
You're not alone here though. I get scared sometimes too.
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