The main problem with dealing with this is not the bulimic side of things. It is getting a 60 year old man who doesnt believe in mental illness to admit there is a problem.
Once that is acheived then the rest can follow.
At that age im not sure how receptive someone would be.
I know this sounds a little odd but the thing that springs to my mind is an "intervention" similar to those that are performed for drug addicts.
Even more important than this however for me is that YOU Rachael learn to keep some distance form all this and maintain care for yourself. Jesus you have enough on your plate already. You can be supportive and give advice and help. its not your job to make him better and take on the stresses of the whole family.
Do what you can to help by listening and being supportive and offering advice and documentation. That all that should and will be asked of you. Dont make yourself ill over this please!
Big huggy things
Matthew xxx
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