[skyran]

my honest answer is that i don't really know.
sorry for not being any help, i just wanted you to know that i'd read it.

i agree that she should say something, but i think that it's important not to push it? maybe just to be there with open arms for him when he's ready? that's what i want most of all sometimes - no interrogation or anything that adds to the shame, just someone to be there.

but each individual and situation is different i think?
sorry, doesnt make much sense i guess. will think about it some more.

sky xx