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Old 27-09-2008, 09:31 PM   #73
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Originally Posted by [Purple_Rain] View Post
It does sound like a good idea, on paper, in the same way people in the picture forum posting saying 'omg im fat' triggers me when they're probably a lot lighter than myself. the problem is, there are a lot fo ways around that, like useing other (often more derogotory words) and also the only way to get rid of it completely would be haveing is starred out liek swear words. peopel would still know what ti said. Also, peopel may want to post for support saying somethign like ' x food is quite high in fat which makes it feel unsafe for me' and someoen might want to reply 'fats are an essential part of people's diets.

Does that make sense?
Yeah, it makes a lot of sense and I'm sorry I hadn't thought of fat as a word for food ingredient .

Oh, I like the starred out solution. Isn't fat a kind of swear word because the official words are overweight and obese?

A veeery recovery based step would be if there it would only be allowed to write "I FEEL fat" or "my ED tells me I am fat" but not be allowed to write "I AM fat" because the last option would mean that it is true you're fat.
Accepting that you aren't really overweight, although you feel like you are, would be a good step forward, wouldn't it?



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