What if someone is actually overweight and calls themselves fat?
You see, i'm not getting all of this.. :/
RYL seem concerned about every member on here, which is understandable. But i think you have to remember it's simply not possible to protect every single person. If someone is going to purposely trigger themselves, you're physically unable to do nothing about it. No one can work miracles here.
I understand the problems, and the goings on - but this is happening on every board on RYL. On the SH board i'm always seeing slip up's of what people are using tool wise, i'm always seeing indepth speeches about there recent wounds. On the R&V board, i'm always seeing people talking graphically about there weight/suicide/self harm. If i continue to read - i have no one else but myself to blame if they trigger me.
I DO understand the predicament the staff are on this topic, but when do the rules stop? When is there a line drawn on what someone can/can't say? I mean, banning the word "fat" is all well and done, but you can't stop every single member from calling themselves fat regardless of there size, regardless of what board it's being put on.
I'm not having a go at all - far from it. I'm just really confused, and have lots of questions, and i'm crap about putting everything across without it sounding ..offish. heh.
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