I think as long as sex is explained to them for what it is 'meant' to be in their opinion, a romantic act between two people in love, then that's fine. They can do what they want, however a lot of places in America teach children that sex is dirty, and that someone who has had sex is dirty and 'used' It's pretty horrible. I was a watching a documentary on this a while ago and there was a 'sex ed' guy who was describing people who have had sex as dirty toothbrushes and that you shouldn't go near them because you don't know where they've been.
Obviously, that is ridiculous and stupid but I think in the fewplaces where things are explained and taught properly (And I'm keeping the faith that there even are places like that) then I don't see the problem with wanting to wait till you're married. Aslong as it's for the right reasons and not because you were forced into it by your father when you were 6 years old and you've been brainwashed to think you'll be eternally damned if you don't.
But yes the girl who said they're saving their first kiss for their wedding night is frankly ridiculous.
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