Dear, I would suggest you talk to him and get everything out... the truth. Tell him how you feel. Don't beat around the bush. You need to make sure that both of you are happy.
He may be talking to someone else because he doesnt know how to confront you about what is bothering him. Try to get him out of his shell and make it clear that it is not ok to bring other people into your relatiobship.
You are not a freak. If anything while battling depression, he needs to be there for you. You were right in telling him that it bothered you because you need to voice how he felt. If it has happened before, make sure you're telling him straight up why it bothers you.
Get him to try to understand what is going on with you. I know it's hard. I have been there. You have my full support. You are NOT a freak. You are going through a problem that many people can relate to.
Pm me if you want to talk. I am here for you, dear.
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