[Bethlehamstar]

I am "getting the feeling", as a friend would say, that this thread doesn't belong here. But I don't know what other forum it would belong in.

See, my friend was abused in a bad way. I want to help her to heal, I would really like to date her when she is whole, but I don't know what would be the best way of helping her to get better.

I thought of making a ceremony where it helps her to get closure and burning some stuff that was hers when she was getting abused and is conected to that abuse, but I do not know if that would help or what items I should ask for. I know she wants some pictures that the police have. Do you all know if there is a way I can go about asking for those pictures and if they would give them to either her or me?

Also, do you all think it would be better for me to help her to wake up if she's having nightmares, or if it would be better to let her sleep? She doesn't much like sleep so she's a bit biased on that.

Thanks. Figured I'd ask you all stuff I didn't want to ask her or felt weird about asking her.