That's great that there's a support group in your area. I searched for one awhile back, but couldn't find one in my area. I did find an online group that has been working out wonderfully for me. I think what's helped me the most is that a lot of things don't have to be said- obviously we're all in that group because of self harm, so you can ask a question like "What should I wear?" and everyone knows it's more than just a fashion question. Also, when someone shares an experience, I get the feeling that just about all of us have had something similar- whether it's about cutting too deep or trying to deal with the relationships that SI has complicated.
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