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Forum: General Support and Advice 13-04-2023, 07:03 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,121
Posted By PeachyGirl
Ex Begging to Keep Living Together

My ex and I are currently still living together until the lease ends in September. I have been paying for everything while he has been unemployed for over 3 years. I broke up with him in the...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 28-02-2023, 07:30 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 1,285
Posted By PeachyGirl
Feeling Triggered

I've been having a rough mental health day, I've been having trouble finding a psychiatrist because I need to go on medication again. I applied for an online med prescription & subscription site and...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 16-09-2022, 03:30 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 3,561
Posted By PeachyGirl
Maybe creating a smaller, more doable task first?...

Maybe creating a smaller, more doable task first? Like instead of a whole shower, just try washing your face? Just being able to do small self-care could help you feel better and not overwhelmed.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 12-09-2022, 07:52 PM
Replies: 28,860
Views: 873,064
Posted By PeachyGirl
Don't ever show up at our place, we don't want to...

Don't ever show up at our place, we don't want to see your face. It's literally been the same rule for YEARS, you narcissistic, ableist, transphobic jerk. You ruin my day with your presence. You're...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 06-09-2022, 12:53 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,295
Posted By PeachyGirl
Finally talked with him again after I had...

Finally talked with him again after I had therapy. He kept up the lie a bit but then told me what it was. He had found some paraphernalia in his backpack from when he'd relapsed before, and was...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-09-2022, 09:33 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,295
Posted By PeachyGirl
Thank you for responding! Yes it's been quite a...

Thank you for responding! Yes it's been quite a rollercoaster of a year already. This current situation is so weird because he's not acting like he's using; no weight loss, no agitation, no sleepless...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 01-09-2022, 06:33 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,295
Posted By PeachyGirl
Partner Addiction...

I think my partner just lied to me.
A year and a half ago he relapsed on his drug of choice (before that he hasn't used in line 12 years or so, before we met), and it nearly destroyed our...
Forum: General Support and Advice 07-07-2022, 04:56 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 3,364
Posted By PeachyGirl
Yeah I think that could be good, I have no idea...

Yeah I think that could be good, I have no idea if his health insurance would cover that and it's tricky because this sort of episode isn't super frequent so I'm afraid if it didn't happen during the...
Forum: General Support and Advice 06-07-2022, 06:12 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 3,364
Posted By PeachyGirl
Partner sleep disorder - help?

Hello, my male partner has some kind of sleep disorder where sometimes he'll talk in his sleep, sleepwalk, or now act out his dreams. Last night was terrifying; he started screaming and perceived me...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 04-06-2022, 07:13 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,465
Posted By PeachyGirl
Yeah I feel like a jerk only posting negative...

Yeah I feel like a jerk only posting negative things here but it's the stuff I'm needing help with... The GOOD things are; he's hilarious, we make each other laugh all the time, he's extremely sweet...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 03-06-2022, 06:20 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,465
Posted By PeachyGirl
Yeah I mean we did break up for a bit, it's *very...

Yeah I mean we did break up for a bit, it's *very complicated and we're trying to see if we can work through it. I love him very much and part of breaking up would be that he would be homeless with...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 02-06-2022, 06:44 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,465
Posted By PeachyGirl
Adult - how to be intimate after trauma?

So... My partner and I have had a really rough year and a half, I broke up with him in March but we're now working things out and it feels good and different from before. But I've also been seriously...
Forum: General Support and Advice 11-05-2022, 03:58 AM
Replies: 251
Views: 39,219
Posted By PeachyGirl
I didn't have a panic attack today and I got...

I didn't have a panic attack today and I got approved time off from work for a half-day to take care of my mental health.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-05-2022, 03:00 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,522
Posted By PeachyGirl
I know people here aren't able to diagnose, I'm...

I know people here aren't able to diagnose, I'm just looking for insight or any advice, if anyone's had similar experiences... I'm just really stressed and don't feel comfortable talking to people I...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 11-05-2022, 01:57 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,522
Posted By PeachyGirl
Icon Question PTSD or Anxiety? *trigger warning* * substances*

I'm not on here much anymore but I'm really needing help... Long story short; I've been with my partner 8.5 years (me; 33F, him; 35M) a little over a year ago he relapsed on a substance I won't name...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 29-12-2021, 01:14 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,620
Posted By PeachyGirl
Hmm... I mean I love him, we've been together 8...

Hmm... I mean I love him, we've been together 8 years, I'm very concerned about his well-being so that's a huge part of why we're still together. We get along really well and know each other so well,...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 22-12-2021, 05:47 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,620
Posted By PeachyGirl
Heart How do I talk to my partner? *trigger warning drugs & violence kind of*

I'm having a very difficult time this year, in March my fiance relapsed on drugs for 3 weeks and I thought he was having a severe manic episode, he didn't tell me what was actually happening until he...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 04-09-2021, 07:27 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,527
Posted By PeachyGirl
Thank you so much for understanding, I just feel...

Thank you so much for understanding, I just feel ridiculous sometimes with my anxiety �� I'll talk to my partner, I'm just embarrassed and I don't want to impede his social life which...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 03-09-2021, 05:20 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,527
Posted By PeachyGirl
Anxiety intensifying - don't know what to do

I have GAD and social anxiety and depression, lately my anxiety and stress is just increasing. Rent just went up my partner and I just got a puppy a few weeks ago. If it was just up to me I wouldn't...
Forum: General Support and Advice 12-04-2021, 04:31 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 2,706
Posted By PeachyGirl
Figuring out my sexuality... Help?

Hi, so I'm a woman and I'm engaged to a man. I'm bisexual, at least that's how I have identified for many years. It started out at about 70% into men and 30% into women in high school, then moved up...
Forum: General Support and Advice 07-04-2021, 10:07 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,680
Posted By PeachyGirl
Has she filed anything with her insurance? I...

Has she filed anything with her insurance? I actually work in insurance claims intake, I don't handle claims myself but I get calls and initiate claims. I would say you should document everything, if...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 05-04-2021, 11:47 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 4,304
Posted By PeachyGirl
That's fantastic! I originally joined back in I...

That's fantastic! I originally joined back in I think 2006, I'm now 32, and I agree - it does get better! This post makes me happy, thank you for sharing!
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 05-04-2021, 04:55 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,071
Posted By PeachyGirl
Thank you for the suggestions for counseling! I...

Thank you for the suggestions for counseling! I have still not called about the assistance program through work, I think mostly because when I'm off work with time to call I just don't want to deal...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 28-03-2021, 08:37 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,071
Posted By PeachyGirl
Partner Relapse *trigger SH/ drugs/ domestic violence-ish*

Hi, I haven't been here in ages but I used to post here back in high school which is further in the past than I'd like to admit... I'm having a very difficult time which is causing me to have...
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