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Forum: General Chat Today, 07:41 AM
Replies: 93,363
Views: 1,576,409
Posted By Elmer
I love fudge. Slab do huge vegan bars and I am so...

I love fudge. Slab do huge vegan bars and I am so so tempted.

I hope everyone is OK this morning and enjoying the cooler weather. We have a thunderstorm :)
Forum: Eating Issues Support Today, 06:59 AM
Replies: 123
Views: 2,822
Posted By Elmer
*gentle poke* Just a reminder we’re here if...

*gentle poke*
Just a reminder we’re here if you need us.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice Today, 06:58 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 223
Posted By Elmer
^ what they said. We’re here, and there’s no rush.

^ what they said. We’re here, and there’s no rush.
Forum: General Support and Advice Yesterday, 08:46 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 247
Posted By Elmer
- Change bedding - Study - Go for a walk - Do...

- Change bedding
- Study
- Go for a walk
- Do another load of laundry
- Nag railcard people
- Sort medication
- Nag CMHT
- Skillshare photo editing course
- Fill in DSA form
Forum: General Support and Advice Yesterday, 08:44 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 247
Posted By Elmer
- Write to do list - Call CMHT (Urgent, do...

- Write to do list
- Call CMHT (Urgent, do today (19/7/21))
- Do a load (several loads) of laundry.
- Change bedding
- Shower regularly
- Do some writing
- Gather evidence for SFE
- TIDY...
Forum: General Chat 22-07-2021, 06:55 PM
Replies: 93,363
Views: 1,576,409
Posted By Elmer
I cannot wait for the storms. The heat makes all...

I cannot wait for the storms. The heat makes all my clothes itchy when they come into contact with my skin and I have to roll around in body butter and lie in cold baths in order to stay sane....
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 22-07-2021, 06:52 PM
Replies: 99
Views: 3,255
Posted By Elmer
I hope it’s ok if I pitch in? I just...

I hope it’s ok if I pitch in?

I just wanted to say I’m so sorry about the abuse you experienced, it sounds like such a lonely and confusing experience and I’m so sorry your mum...
Forum: General Support and Advice 22-07-2021, 02:10 PM
Replies: 3,670
Views: 270,959
Posted By Elmer
- Woke up at 3am and tidied my room. It is now no...

- Woke up at 3am and tidied my room. It is now no longer an assault course and could be classed as “socially acceptable mess”
- Lots of cold baths
- Productive therapy session
- Sent...
Forum: General Support and Advice 21-07-2021, 12:12 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 247
Posted By Elmer
- Write to do list - Call CMHT (Urgent, do...

- Write to do list
- Call CMHT (Urgent, do today (19/7/21))
- Do a load (several loads) of laundry.
- Change bedding
- Shower regularly ——- cold showers :)
- Do some writing
-...
Forum: General Support and Advice 20-07-2021, 09:54 AM
Replies: 3,670
Views: 270,959
Posted By Elmer
Went to see friends and had linguine My cats were...

Went to see friends and had linguine
My cats were really pleased to see me
Spoke to more friends :)
Made excellent cheese and pepperoni on toast
Forum: General Support and Advice 20-07-2021, 06:34 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 247
Posted By Elmer
- Write to do list - Call CMHT (Urgent, do...

- Write to do list
- Call CMHT (Urgent, do today (19/7/21))
- Do a load (several loads) of laundry. —- One load down!
- Change bedding
- Shower regularly ——- cold showers :)
-...
Forum: General Support and Advice 19-07-2021, 08:30 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 247
Posted By Elmer
To do Lists

So I don't know if this has been done and I'm too lazy to use the search function so.

To do lists! I know a lot of us here struggle with doing things, through no fault of our own and I've always...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 16-07-2021, 07:30 PM
Replies: 123
Views: 2,822
Posted By Elmer
Again, I am so ****ing sorry. A weight loss...

Again, I am so ****ing sorry. A weight loss tablet in someone with malnutrition. Not clever. I know you want to lose weight but please don’t fill that prescription. It’s only going to...
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 16-07-2021, 04:15 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 418
Posted By Elmer
*centre ;-) Seriously, well done. Iím so glad...

*centre ;-)

Seriously, well done. Iím so glad itís getting sorted and I hope youíre at least a bit proud of yourself.
Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 15-07-2021, 08:31 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 418
Posted By Elmer
That all sucks and I’m so sorry...

That all sucks and I’m so sorry you’re dealing with it. I think that calling the government people about your ID is a really good idea so I’m glad you’re thinking that’s...
Forum: Self-Harm Discussion and Support 14-07-2021, 11:59 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 225
Posted By Elmer
Hi Ludzig, welcome to the forums :) For what...

Hi Ludzig, welcome to the forums :)

For what it’s worth, I think it’s up to your boyfriend to decide if he can deal with hearing about your problems. How has he reacted so...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 12-07-2021, 11:38 AM
Replies: 123
Views: 2,822
Posted By Elmer
Good for you for reporting her. She needs some...

Good for you for reporting her. She needs some education. And possibly a little lie down in a puddle.

I think you know what to do. Find a way to stop looking at it, if you can, is my advice. It's...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 12-07-2021, 11:15 AM
Replies: 123
Views: 2,822
Posted By Elmer
What the actual ****. Call the agency, report...

What the actual ****. Call the agency, report her. You told her you had an EATING DISORDER and she just praised your weight loss?! And told you to CARRY ON??? Not OK. Not OK at all. Weight should...
Forum: General Support and Advice 12-07-2021, 03:37 AM
Replies: 3,670
Views: 270,959
Posted By Elmer
Hi Lana! :Smile: I havenít done this for ages....

Hi Lana! :Smile:
I havenít done this for ages. Last few days:
- campfires and toasted marshmallows
- my cats
- saw a friend who always makes my heart happy
- zoom call with the most excellent...
Forum: General Chat 11-07-2021, 09:10 PM
Replies: 93,363
Views: 1,576,409
Posted By Elmer
At least somebody here is watching.

At least somebody here is watching.
Forum: Eating Issues Support 10-07-2021, 10:17 AM
Replies: 123
Views: 2,822
Posted By Elmer
I’m so sorry things are so hard....

I’m so sorry things are so hard. You’re doing so well with how hard you’re trying not to purge, that battle feels almost impossible sometimes.

I’m glad you have a psych...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 10-07-2021, 10:09 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 6,182
Posted By Elmer
There was a time when people offering me food...

There was a time when people offering me food felt like a personal attack. But that’s the ED talking, it’s not your sister. You did absolutely nothing wrong. Your sister is completely...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 09-07-2021, 06:38 PM
Replies: 123
Views: 2,822
Posted By Elmer
That's really difficult, and one of the horrible...

That's really difficult, and one of the horrible things body dysmorphia does to us, I get it too. But just remember, your weight is nobody's business, not even yours tbh! Your body will find where...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 08-07-2021, 04:31 PM
Replies: 123
Views: 2,822
Posted By Elmer
I’m very glad your CPN did something useful...

I’m very glad your CPN did something useful this time, and hope the psych appointment is productive. I definitely second going to a support group if one is available, as Camden says, people...
Forum: Eating Issues Support 07-07-2021, 11:33 AM
Replies: 123
Views: 2,822
Posted By Elmer
If she does send her to me I’ll fight...

If she does send her to me I’ll fight her.
On a serious note, if she does, complain. Go back to your GP. This shouldn’t be how it is. She should have at least a basic understanding of...
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