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Abuse and Bullying Support
06-05-2016, 09:23 PM
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My Mother blames my Father for my rape
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Truth&OtherDisasters
What a horrible situation! Sorry you're going...
What a horrible situation! Sorry you're going through all of this! You can get through it, and you will, but I know it's extremely difficult.
Honestly, what you are saying about how your mom is, is...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
15-12-2015, 01:49 PM
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Contains sexual abuse - Shame around pain , discomfort and physical sensation . Does anyone else have this ?
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Truth&OtherDisasters
It will pass, I'm sure. Sleep if you need to, but...
It will pass, I'm sure. Sleep if you need to, but if you can, try to do something. For example, I used to take walks. I would put music I like on really high on mp3 and then walk around a park I know...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
14-12-2015, 06:39 PM
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Contains sexual abuse - Shame around pain , discomfort and physical sensation . Does anyone else have this ?
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2,957
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Truth&OtherDisasters
I know how that feels. I have some low moments...
I know how that feels. I have some low moments recently, just as I though I got out of that. I am trying to keep my head above water and hold onto the good. Sometimes I think I have succeeded and...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
14-12-2015, 01:21 PM
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3
Contains sexual abuse - Hard time of year
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2,080
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Truth&OtherDisasters
I'm sorry you feel that way! I get it...
I'm sorry you feel that way! I get it completely...I was ra**d in the summer of 2010, so when everyone is out enjoying going to the pool and parties and doing summer things, I usually struggle the...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
14-12-2015, 01:15 PM
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3
Contains sexual abuse - How to get through each day?
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2,267
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Truth&OtherDisasters
Hi, I agree completely. This is a process...and...
Hi, I agree completely. This is a process...and it may take weeks, but it may take years...You are brave, you're dealing with it right away. It took me year and a half to even talk about it to...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
14-12-2015, 12:58 PM
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3
Contains sexual abuse - Not knowing how to let go, advice?
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2,154
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Truth&OtherDisasters
Thank you, it means a lot! Sometimes I feel so...
Thank you, it means a lot! Sometimes I feel so bad that I haven't moved on yet. It's good(as much as this can be good) to know I am not alone.
I get it, but the problem isn't the evening, it's...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
14-12-2015, 12:46 PM
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Contains sexual abuse - Shame around pain , discomfort and physical sensation . Does anyone else have this ?
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2,957
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Truth&OtherDisasters
It's okay to struggle. Everyone does, even people...
It's okay to struggle. Everyone does, even people who haven't went through trauma in any way...but people like us who have, feel more reluctant to ask for help, because to us it means being...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
11-12-2015, 11:32 PM
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3
Contains sexual abuse - Not knowing how to let go, advice?
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2,154
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Truth&OtherDisasters
Not knowing how to let go, advice?
Hi everyone...This is about my issues with going to sleep properly. It will probably sound silly compared to a lot of the topics on this forum, but I will still try. it's been...5 years I guess,...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
11-12-2015, 11:02 PM
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Contains sexual abuse - Advice please help x
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2,185
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Truth&OtherDisasters
I agree with all said completely! It's a process....
I agree with all said completely! It's a process. It's okay if right now you're feeling or doing things that don't make sense to you. Your mind is trying to process this, and it takes time.
You sound...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
11-12-2015, 10:59 PM
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2
Contains sexual abuse - Losing weight being a trigger??
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2,416
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Truth&OtherDisasters
Thank you! Actually after I posted this I did...
Thank you! Actually after I posted this I did tried to talk about it in counselling for a while, and it ended bringing up a LOT more than I thought. It turns out I buried the reason why it borthers...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
11-12-2015, 10:51 PM
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19
Contains sexual abuse - Shame around pain , discomfort and physical sensation . Does anyone else have this ?
Views:
2,957
Posted By
Truth&OtherDisasters
Aww:( So sorry you are feeling this way!! I get...
Aww:( So sorry you are feeling this way!!
I get this. Especially when you said it's probably because that's when you hurt when you were abused...that's probably a huge trigger for you, so it's...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
16-11-2015, 03:56 PM
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4
Contains bullying - How far should I withdraw to stay safe?
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2,262
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Truth&OtherDisasters
You don't have to live like that, of course! It...
You don't have to live like that, of course! It does sound like you are surrounded by the wrong people though, so you need to find a better people to surround yourself with, and may be a better...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
10-11-2015, 01:11 PM
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6
Contains sexual abuse - dissociation and loud noises
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1,898
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Truth&OtherDisasters
I'm the same. I spend about a year when even in...
I'm the same. I spend about a year when even in warm months I was staying with blanket when I was in my new room, as it has a lot of windows and light, and it's right next to balcony connected to...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
09-11-2015, 12:11 AM
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5
Contains sexual abuse - so I read a book
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1,942
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Truth&OtherDisasters
I know how you feel completely. Triggers are...
I know how you feel completely. Triggers are tricky. At this point I am good enough that I can even read or watch something like that, and nothing...but then something small and completely seemingly...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
09-11-2015, 12:06 AM
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344
Contains sexual abuse - The Bubble
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36,821
Posted By
Truth&OtherDisasters
I really need to just switch off tonight. I feel...
I really need to just switch off tonight. I feel so down.
Forum:
Abuse and Bullying Support
27-10-2015, 01:45 PM
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Contains sexual abuse - Some questions for those who have been sexually abused
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2,486
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Truth&OtherDisasters
Everyone already gave a lot of great advice, and...
Everyone already gave a lot of great advice, and as someone who as experienced rape(while not really as a child though), I wanted to give my 2 cents...especially since you seem smart and caring, and...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
24-10-2015, 09:10 PM
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2
Contains sexual abuse - Losing weight being a trigger??
Views:
2,416
Posted By
Truth&OtherDisasters
Losing weight being a trigger??
Hey guys,
So I went through rape few years back(summer of 2010) and it's been hard, but I think for the most part I'm doing as good as can be expected. I've recovered in a lot of ways, though I...
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Abuse and Bullying Support
24-10-2015, 08:23 PM
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2
Contains sexual abuse - Its began
Views:
1,939
Posted By
Truth&OtherDisasters
It's great that you are seeking help, you should...
It's great that you are seeking help, you should feel good about that! But yes, I know it's a hard thing, and a therapy that sends you into destructive path right after won't help much.
It's hard for...
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Mental Health Discussion and Support
07-05-2015, 06:05 PM
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3
Feeling a little lost
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594
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Truth&OtherDisasters
Feeling a little lost
I think I've been getting depressed lately. I've been depressed before, but for some reason that doesn't really help me much in figuring whether I am now and what to do forwards.
I wish I could talk...
Forum:
Abuse and Bullying Support
16-02-2015, 03:00 PM
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7
Confused
Views:
1,365
Posted By
Truth&OtherDisasters
So sorry you feel like this. I never went through...
So sorry you feel like this. I never went through the whole process of reporting, but I have done a lot in the way of recovery.
You're going through a lot, so it's natural that your emotions are...
Forum:
Abuse and Bullying Support
16-02-2015, 02:36 PM
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3
Contains sexual abuse - Am I right to be triggered? (contains self harm)
Views:
1,223
Posted By
Truth&OtherDisasters
I think it's completely normal. I struggled a lot...
I think it's completely normal. I struggled a lot to find all the good parts of having sexual relations appealing when I started to recover from what happened to me.
There was a point where I thought...
Forum:
Abuse and Bullying Support
27-06-2014, 06:35 PM
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14
Disclosure
Views:
1,264
Posted By
Truth&OtherDisasters
Hi, I haven't experience this, but I'm thinking...
Hi,
I haven't experience this, but I'm thinking of you now. This is exactly what I was afraid would happen years ago, which is why I kept my mouth shut. That was a mistake. It's good that you are...
Forum:
Abuse and Bullying Support
27-06-2014, 06:28 PM
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2
Contains sexual abuse - For all the times I've kept my mouth shut...
Views:
1,031
Posted By
Truth&OtherDisasters
I know it's the right thing., but they finally...
I know it's the right thing., but they finally suggested meeting and I'm too afraid to know whether to take it...They are real therapists and I'll have to talk in person, and what if I can't talk, or...
Forum:
Abuse and Bullying Support
27-06-2014, 06:25 PM
Replies:
2
Contains sexual abuse - Guys help, going counselling
Views:
1,269
Posted By
Truth&OtherDisasters
Guys help, going counselling
Please, anyone who has ever been to counseling for sexual abuse, any tips? I finally found english speaking place here, and it's free(which is good because I can't afford anything more). I wrote them...
Forum:
Abuse and Bullying Support
10-06-2014, 05:52 PM
Replies:
2
Contains sexual abuse - For all the times I've kept my mouth shut...
Views:
1,031
Posted By
Truth&OtherDisasters
For all the times I've kept my mouth shut...
I'm just tired today. I get that it's wrong of me to rant here, but I'm just so tired. I'm talking to a friend who knows tomorrow and to my boyfriend in 2 days, but I have to do something today,...
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