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Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 06-05-2016, 09:23 PM
Replies: 3
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What a horrible situation! Sorry you're going...

What a horrible situation! Sorry you're going through all of this! You can get through it, and you will, but I know it's extremely difficult.

Honestly, what you are saying about how your mom is, is...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 15-12-2015, 01:49 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,957
It will pass, I'm sure. Sleep if you need to, but...

It will pass, I'm sure. Sleep if you need to, but if you can, try to do something. For example, I used to take walks. I would put music I like on really high on mp3 and then walk around a park I know...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 14-12-2015, 06:39 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,957
I know how that feels. I have some low moments...

I know how that feels. I have some low moments recently, just as I though I got out of that. I am trying to keep my head above water and hold onto the good. Sometimes I think I have succeeded and...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 14-12-2015, 01:21 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,080
I'm sorry you feel that way! I get it...

I'm sorry you feel that way! I get it completely...I was ra**d in the summer of 2010, so when everyone is out enjoying going to the pool and parties and doing summer things, I usually struggle the...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 14-12-2015, 01:15 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,267
Hi, I agree completely. This is a process...and...

Hi, I agree completely. This is a process...and it may take weeks, but it may take years...You are brave, you're dealing with it right away. It took me year and a half to even talk about it to...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 14-12-2015, 12:58 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,154
Thank you, it means a lot! Sometimes I feel so...

Thank you, it means a lot! Sometimes I feel so bad that I haven't moved on yet. It's good(as much as this can be good) to know I am not alone.



I get it, but the problem isn't the evening, it's...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 14-12-2015, 12:46 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,957
It's okay to struggle. Everyone does, even people...

It's okay to struggle. Everyone does, even people who haven't went through trauma in any way...but people like us who have, feel more reluctant to ask for help, because to us it means being...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 11-12-2015, 11:32 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,154
Not knowing how to let go, advice?

Hi everyone...This is about my issues with going to sleep properly. It will probably sound silly compared to a lot of the topics on this forum, but I will still try. it's been...5 years I guess,...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 11-12-2015, 11:02 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,185
I agree with all said completely! It's a process....

I agree with all said completely! It's a process. It's okay if right now you're feeling or doing things that don't make sense to you. Your mind is trying to process this, and it takes time.
You sound...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 11-12-2015, 10:59 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,416
Thank you! Actually after I posted this I did...

Thank you! Actually after I posted this I did tried to talk about it in counselling for a while, and it ended bringing up a LOT more than I thought. It turns out I buried the reason why it borthers...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 11-12-2015, 10:51 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 2,957
Aww:( So sorry you are feeling this way!! I get...

Aww:( So sorry you are feeling this way!!

I get this. Especially when you said it's probably because that's when you hurt when you were abused...that's probably a huge trigger for you, so it's...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 16-11-2015, 03:56 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 2,262
You don't have to live like that, of course! It...

You don't have to live like that, of course! It does sound like you are surrounded by the wrong people though, so you need to find a better people to surround yourself with, and may be a better...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 10-11-2015, 01:11 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 1,898
I'm the same. I spend about a year when even in...

I'm the same. I spend about a year when even in warm months I was staying with blanket when I was in my new room, as it has a lot of windows and light, and it's right next to balcony connected to...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 09-11-2015, 12:11 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,942
I know how you feel completely. Triggers are...

I know how you feel completely. Triggers are tricky. At this point I am good enough that I can even read or watch something like that, and nothing...but then something small and completely seemingly...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 09-11-2015, 12:06 AM
Replies: 344
Views: 36,821
I really need to just switch off tonight. I feel...

I really need to just switch off tonight. I feel so down.
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 27-10-2015, 01:45 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,486
Everyone already gave a lot of great advice, and...

Everyone already gave a lot of great advice, and as someone who as experienced rape(while not really as a child though), I wanted to give my 2 cents...especially since you seem smart and caring, and...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 24-10-2015, 09:10 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 2,416
Losing weight being a trigger??

Hey guys,

So I went through rape few years back(summer of 2010) and it's been hard, but I think for the most part I'm doing as good as can be expected. I've recovered in a lot of ways, though I...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 24-10-2015, 08:23 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,939
It's great that you are seeking help, you should...

It's great that you are seeking help, you should feel good about that! But yes, I know it's a hard thing, and a therapy that sends you into destructive path right after won't help much.
It's hard for...
Forum: Mental Health Discussion and Support 07-05-2015, 06:05 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 594
Feeling a little lost

I think I've been getting depressed lately. I've been depressed before, but for some reason that doesn't really help me much in figuring whether I am now and what to do forwards.

I wish I could talk...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 16-02-2015, 03:00 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,365
So sorry you feel like this. I never went through...

So sorry you feel like this. I never went through the whole process of reporting, but I have done a lot in the way of recovery.

You're going through a lot, so it's natural that your emotions are...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 16-02-2015, 02:36 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,223
I think it's completely normal. I struggled a lot...

I think it's completely normal. I struggled a lot to find all the good parts of having sexual relations appealing when I started to recover from what happened to me.
There was a point where I thought...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 27-06-2014, 06:35 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 1,264
Hi, I haven't experience this, but I'm thinking...

Hi,

I haven't experience this, but I'm thinking of you now. This is exactly what I was afraid would happen years ago, which is why I kept my mouth shut. That was a mistake. It's good that you are...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 27-06-2014, 06:28 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,031
I know it's the right thing., but they finally...

I know it's the right thing., but they finally suggested meeting and I'm too afraid to know whether to take it...They are real therapists and I'll have to talk in person, and what if I can't talk, or...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 27-06-2014, 06:25 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,269
Guys help, going counselling

Please, anyone who has ever been to counseling for sexual abuse, any tips? I finally found english speaking place here, and it's free(which is good because I can't afford anything more). I wrote them...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 10-06-2014, 05:52 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 1,031
For all the times I've kept my mouth shut...

I'm just tired today. I get that it's wrong of me to rant here, but I'm just so tired. I'm talking to a friend who knows tomorrow and to my boyfriend in 2 days, but I have to do something today,...
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