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Forum: Serious Discussion and Advice 24-04-2010, 05:04 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,561
Posted By bloodletting
it's definately ok to feel...

it's definately ok to feel angry,hurt,betrayed..and maybe right now a bit of space to cool off would be good for you and your parents..betraying a promise is never ok..but maybe a part of her didnt...
Forum: General Support and Advice 24-04-2010, 04:49 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 897
Posted By bloodletting
i can only really echo what makedamnsure has...

i can only really echo what makedamnsure has said..
your mind is really good at protecting itself when it needs to..and it does really make sense that all your feelings and emotions about what you...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 24-04-2010, 04:24 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,416
Posted By bloodletting
you are in no way a bad person..all the guilt and...

you are in no way a bad person..all the guilt and shame you feel is what your abuser should feel..try nurturing your inner child. a child is powerless and too many adults use this to abuse them.i...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 24-04-2010, 04:06 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 1,389
Posted By bloodletting
you may never forgive or forget,,that's up to...

you may never forgive or forget,,that's up to you..but you do need to slowly get back to a place where you can function in life. *hugs*
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 13-04-2009, 06:26 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 3,990
Posted By bloodletting
i understand the feeling of being vunerable...

i understand the feeling of being vunerable naked....it kinda makes summer unpleasant because i still have to sleep with a quilt so i can feel the weight on me and the safety of being covered..once...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 25-03-2008, 02:29 AM
Replies: 35
Views: 8,486
Posted By bloodletting
hey sweetie....it's a good question, but i'm...

hey sweetie....it's a good question, but i'm kinda undecided....there is a big difference between being raped and making love. but i think clinically you are not a virgin because there was...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 24-01-2008, 11:57 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 4,545
Posted By bloodletting
hugs.....you are not your father....i dont have...

hugs.....you are not your father....i dont have the experience of being abused by my father but i was abused by my stepdad...and i have 3 kids by him...now at timesd i struggle because yes they look...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 24-01-2008, 11:41 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 2,926
Posted By bloodletting
flashbacks can seem as real as the actual...

flashbacks can seem as real as the actual abuse...i cant offer much but just to say that you dont desrve to be punished or hurt, take care of your cuts and yourself when it happens. there is support...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 24-01-2008, 11:32 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 2,907
Posted By bloodletting
i agree with the above...your dreams are a safe...

i agree with the above...your dreams are a safe place for your mind to work trhought the trauma you have suffered, it might be an idea for you to acknowledge the abuse you have suffered in your...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 30-10-2007, 09:13 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 3,473
Posted By bloodletting
i think deep down you know what you need to do,...

i think deep down you know what you need to do, taking those first steps is the hardest, and maybe all you need is to hear all the support from people on here. you deserve to be happy and safe, and...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 03-10-2007, 03:40 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 1,816
Posted By bloodletting
you made a really hard but brave choice in...

you made a really hard but brave choice in leaving. and yes it's going to hurt, and you may start to feel the pull to go back, but the way you described his emotional abuse etc sounds like the next...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 28-09-2007, 10:53 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 2,183
Posted By bloodletting
it's understandable that you're confused, but in...

it's understandable that you're confused, but in reality i think your sister is just playing games. even at 9 she understood what she was doing was wrong, and the fact that she has no guilt over...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 28-09-2007, 10:43 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,038
Posted By bloodletting
i can't talk cause i've avoided the dredded smear...

i can't talk cause i've avoided the dredded smear test, they gave me valium once and i still couldn't go through with it....but it is important and in the long run it's more important for you to...
Forum: Creativity and Reviews 28-09-2007, 10:37 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,252
Posted By bloodletting
i'm also a big fan....but need to finish my...

i'm also a big fan....but need to finish my collection, i watched them on tv from the very first ep till the last. can anyone confirm that a sequal to the movie is being made?????? that would be...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 25-09-2007, 05:57 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 8,307
Posted By bloodletting
i agree, you aren't letting her or yourself down....

i agree, you aren't letting her or yourself down. let her know that is was a good idea but you're not ready for that yet, set your own pace hun, you don't need to rush this.
i hope one day you can...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 25-09-2007, 05:44 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 2,038
Posted By bloodletting
*hugs* is there anything that's happened recently...

*hugs* is there anything that's happened recently to make it really bad right now? i know how easy it is to use drugs and alcohol to numb the memories, but on the flip side alcohol is a depressant,...
Forum: Introductions 25-09-2007, 05:38 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,081
Posted By bloodletting
just wanted to let you know that you're not...

just wanted to let you know that you're not alone, and you're not expected to deal with any of this alone. and maybe with enough support you might be able to heal a little and stop hurting yourself...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 14-09-2007, 07:51 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 1,543
Posted By bloodletting
*hugs* there is no time line for getting over...

*hugs* there is no time line for getting over abuse, but you can get the tools you need to deal with it. keep up with the counselling, you don't need to do this alone. it's a long and sometimes...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 11-09-2007, 09:46 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 2,228
Posted By bloodletting
*hugs* when i started counselling it seemed that...

*hugs* when i started counselling it seemed that everything got worse, but i was told that it does sometimes get worse before it gets better. and it does make sense, you are bringing up a lot of...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 10-09-2007, 08:45 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,630
Posted By bloodletting
well i still wouldnt say that it's abuse, but it...

well i still wouldnt say that it's abuse, but it does mean he's just using you to get what he wants, he shouldn't agree to have sex with you if he knows you don't really want it for the pleasure.
try...
Forum: Creativity and Reviews 10-09-2007, 08:39 AM
Replies: 533
Views: 293,335
Posted By bloodletting
Pink-I'm not dead...."underneath the ink of...

Pink-I'm not dead...."underneath the ink of my tattoo i try to hide my scars from you". awsome song.
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 09-09-2007, 06:45 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,529
Posted By bloodletting
*hugs* i'm sorry you're having to deal with this...

*hugs* i'm sorry you're having to deal with this on your own. the mind is apowerful thing and at the time it blocked all these horrible events out so you could cope, it was trying to protect by...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 09-09-2007, 06:38 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 1,860
Posted By bloodletting
*hugs* i'm sorry you're in such a bad place right...

*hugs* i'm sorry you're in such a bad place right now, gothic angel made some great suggestions that might help.
do you have anyone else you can talk to about how things are for you right now? it...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 09-09-2007, 06:30 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,375
Posted By bloodletting
*hugs* you should be really proud of yourself...

*hugs* you should be really proud of yourself sweetie, you took the first steps in healing and helping yourself. it's a long road and keep it mind that sometimes it can get harder before it gets...
Forum: Abuse and Bullying Support 09-09-2007, 06:24 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 3,630
Posted By bloodletting
*hugs* you're not ****ed up hun, but you do need...

*hugs* you're not ****ed up hun, but you do need to ask yourself why you have sex when you don't really want it.
it's really only assault or abuse if the other person forces you or ignores you when...
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