Oh...
 

I've quite literally got NO friends.

Y'know, none?

Not one single person...

And I'm really struggling.

It's like the walls are falling in on me.

The holidays are killing me.

And I'm sort of on my own.

Advice, anyone?

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I'm sorry you're feeling so alone. I can totally understand. I don't have any friends either (except on here). Would it help to look into some sort of activities or clubs you could go to. (I'm sorry, I know that's not a helpful suggestion). But if you just did things YOU want to do, things you're interested in, then you might meet like-minded people, and might gain some friends. In the meantime, just to try to make you feel less alone, then reach out to people here. Chat to them and let them be your 'friends'. I know you want real friends, so do I, but in the meantime it does help just to have someone to talk to. The other thing is to learn just to like being by yourself, and spending time by yourself, doing the things YOU enjoy. It can be fun doing some things by yourself and not having to count on other people.

Sorry I'm not much use to you, just want you to know I feel the same, so you're not completely alone in this. Feel free to PM me if you want to. Take care. *Big hugs*

Lily
xx

I'm really sorry you're feeling so alone at the moment. Don't forget that everyone on RYL is here for you, I know it's not quite the same as having somebody to hug you and talk to and that, but if you ever need talk then you can PM me anytime you like.

For friends IRL, maybe you could try joining a club near you? Try finding something that would mean you'd have to interact with others. Have you got any hobbies or interests?

Do/did you SI? Maybe you could look for self help groups locally, as I'm sure many of the people there would be feeling alone too, and you could support each other.

*really massive mega hugs*
I know being alone really sucks, it makes you feel like you don't exist and that nobody cares but there will be people out there who care and that can help you feel less alone, just hang on for a bit.

xx

If you want to talk... Pm/MSN/Myspace me

*Hug*

I'm not sure if I can help you because I feel exactly the same as you, but you can allways pm or msn me.

*hugs*

I'm sorry you feel like this
I do know how you feel
Is there a particular reason why you suddenly feel like this?
Why don't you try and make new friends
It may seem scary making new friends but it'll be worth it
PM me anytime
X

Awh. This is a horrible feeling. *hugs* Sorry you are going through this. If you ever want to talk, don't hesitate to message me.