What do you wish people would say to you?
 

Stolen idea from ED forum

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If they were strangers or people i dont know well, i wish they'd either not say anything or just say ok, like it was no big deal. If they were close, I wish they'd tell me that theyd be there for me and that i could tell them anything... but they'd have to seriously mean it!

That, they won't abandon me, and they will be by my side forever.

Hmm. There is a hard question. That's it alright to feel the way I do, everything will work out in the end and they won't ever steal 'it' away from me. (long story). xo.

that everything will be okay in the end and they wont judge me theyll just love me for who i am

That they'll listen but I don't have to talk about it if I don't want to.

That they care, won't go mad at me and actually start talking to me more about stuff...x

"i'll never abandon you"

and sometimes there are just no words
sometimes i just need to be held and comforted that way

I used to think I wanted somebody to tell me "It's all alright I'm here if you want to talk and I'll never leave you, let me help"
But when people have said things along those lines I get really frustrated because I just can't bring myself to say anything and it upsets me more.

I can't say what I'd like somebody to say to me now. It's just wrong.

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That is mine as well, I want the person I am infatuated with to say they care for me too.

same here

I wish my daddy would say he loves me :'(

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That.

Being told I can lean on them, and them putting their arm around me when/if I do. In the right moment, with no alternate motives, is pretty helpful, in a bizzare way.

Holding my hand, though that's a very secret guilty pleasure I'm madly shy about. Would probably depend on how I was at the time.

Stroking my head/back.

When I'm in the right frame of mind anyway...

I hadnt realised I was so pysical...

Something along the lines of "You know...it's okay to let it out" I actually broke down in tears in a good way when a guy said that to me.

Me: 'Oh God plese don't ask what's wrong'
A guy: *kind of comforting smile* 'I wasn't going to' *Sticks around untill he knows he's not needed/helping*

That was kind of more physical...sorry...

I know you cut, and you must be hurting inside. I still care about you.

i want HIM to say.."i know that i saved you...that was what i was going for. I know i'm your hero...i'll always be your hero."

that no matter what i do they'll always be there and love me