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Ricky_09 23-03-2009 07:44 PM

Nightmares/night terors
 
Hi everyone
i am just woundering if these night teorors or nightmares whatever you want to call them but i keep haveing them from my abuse and i just like want them out of my head because they like wont and i dont understand because its from my abuse and stuff and i i just want to get rid of them and i dont understand why i keep haveing all of these bad nightmares/night terors and i dont know what to do and i told my therapist and my phichatrist about them and they said it is normal from the kinda of abuse i went through and stuff but idk i i mean i wake up at night screaming and crying and i feel so vulnrable and stuff idk any advise is welcome

Popple 23-03-2009 07:48 PM

You do this because obviously what has happened to you has traumatised and really hurt you.
Sometimes it helps if you make a routine for before you go to bed, do somethings that are calmin and will make you feel safe and remember it is just a dream the worst is over you survived that and you can survive this.
It is perfectly normal to feel like this because what happened to you was wrong.
And when you are ready and try and work through the abuse and learn to deal with it the nightmares should lessen.
Take care of yourself
x

shadow-light 23-03-2009 07:52 PM

*echos the above*


also, I think there is a thread about dealing with nightmares in the abuse section... I shall go find it for you, it could be helpful

shadow-light 23-03-2009 08:06 PM

I couldn't find the thread I was thinking of... but I found:


sleep tips for abuse survivors
flashback help
dealing with flashbacks


hope there's something of help in there

troubleshooter 23-03-2009 11:21 PM

Try to do nice calming things before bed and ground yourself if you get flashbacks during the day, we have lots of threads on grounding and some were just listed above me. *hugs* You can get through it

Katiee 24-03-2009 03:04 AM

Heyy,
I'm sorry to hear you're suffering from nightmares. I don't have any advice. But could you ask your therapist if there is anything you could do to stop them? xo


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