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Shattered_N_Scared 09-07-2007 05:17 AM

Attack of the Green-Eyed Monster?
 
blah...I hate it.

I'm jealous....there I admit it!...but I thought that this kinda **** would stop happening as I got older...turns out it just get worse...

Alright...so here's the skinny...recently in my life...it seems like everyone is settling down.
I've got two good friends now living with thier boyfriends..
Another is getting married next year...
One is having a baby...
And yet another is getting engaged....

Me? Well I'm "taken" per se...But he doesn't want to do anything untill later...(WTF is this later...I dunno)

But yet...I'm happy in my relationship...I just wish I had something a bit more stable....

...I dunno anymore

Sans Peur 09-07-2007 06:02 PM

hey

its understandable that you feel this way but try not to let jealously rule you life.

Being married or having a baby doesnt always mean a more stale relationship.it still can go wrong but with more problems.

You are in a relationship just now,speak to your partner about how you are feeling about life, about other peoples lives.Be open wih each other

take care of yourself

jane x

Destinationzero 11-07-2007 04:39 AM

I agree. Just because you get married and/or are having a baby doesn't mean stability. I think either of those in my current relationship would possibly ruin it. He might be comfortable where you are in your relationship. He also might not be ready for THAT big of a step depending on how long you've been dating eachother. I would talk to him though about your relationship and see if he thinks you are in a serious relationship or not. Talk about the relationship, do things together, share secrets...that's what makes a relationship stable in my book. I'm not getting engaged or having a baby and I know that just because I have good communication with my bf that we are stable and together.


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