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misfitscot1980 06-02-2009 02:54 AM

WHY
 
Why do people think when you don't want to talk or you want keep to yourself something has to be wrong or bothering you is it so hard for people to understand that sometimes you just want to be left alone to have sometime with your thoughts it make me so pissed when I get asked all day what is wrong and then tell people nothing and they tell me i am a liar it makes me feel like **** when i get asked this all day anyone else have people do this to them a lot if so how do you deal with it cause i don't know how many more tomes i can deal with this it has been almost everyday for the past 2 weeks god i wish some people would leave me alone you know

ravynsoul 06-02-2009 03:17 AM

I hear you; it's frustrating when people think that because you're a little more quiet you're having trouble. I don't have any words of wisdom at the moment; but I did want to say that I understand what you mean.. when I'm thinking a little clearer; I hopefully can answer better. *hugs*

misfitscot1980 06-02-2009 03:24 AM

thanks ravyn at least i know that i am not the only one dealing with this crap from people just because you are a little more quiet then you might be

wildly insane 06-02-2009 06:42 PM

Hey Scot, people can get very irritating, sometimes if they're friends then I just have to say to myself, it's because they care, and it doesn't stop it from being annoying but I can kinda see where they're coming from. But I totally understand where you're coming from too. Sometimes I find people can understand if I say something along the lines of "honestly I'm fine, but I'm just not feeling very social right now" or "I'm okay but I just need some of what I call "hannah time"" *hugs* Hannah

misfitscot1980 08-02-2009 03:36 PM

Yeah Hannah I might have to give that a try tell them some thing like that accept scot time not hannah time well i could say that and confuse them

wildly insane 09-02-2009 12:43 AM

;-) let me know if it works, *hugs*


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