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englishrose 31-01-2009 01:31 PM

Litlle advice
 
OK my friend came to me the other day and said she found a web site that was sort of like a dating site but for sex people arn't there for relationship just sex. She has signed up and is chatting to a guy and might meet him for sex.
Now i really dont know what to think is it any different from meeting someone i a club and have a one night stand? Is it right? I dont know what your thoughts? thanks luv jad

Crysainta 01-02-2009 06:12 AM

I went to a site like that once to see if anyone in my small city was there. Quite a few were but I didn't recognize them because the pictures were NOT of their faces and of course real names weren't given. Your friend should be careful. In terms of safety it is probably not much different than meeting someone in a bar and having a one night stand. It is different in that you can look for something very specific and agree to it before you actually meet.

Merc 01-02-2009 10:40 PM

i suppose if she is ready in all ways to have one nighter's than whats the harm? except you may meet a few ppl with some ...'intersting' fetishes and the like, but then you may meet them in a club too...?
Hmmm..i guess so long as she is responsible enough to handle this what what can you do, right? I hope it all goes alright for her.
romp

Sigma 03-02-2009 07:46 AM

In principle no different from a one night stand I guess, though it feels more risky. At least with a one night stand you can see what you're getting a bit more (though appearances aren't necessarily a guarantee!), also generally you're out with friends and so they at least see the person and that creates a bit more of a safety net...

But as Romp says, all you can do is encourage her to think through what she's doing, then it's her choice


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