Relationship advice...
 

It's not so much relationship advice... I dunno what else to call it...

I'm in what I would call a long-term relationship. I have been going out with my boyfriend now for over 2 years. I love and adore him, and no way would I change him in any way!

But I had a dream last night that I was going out with someone else. Someone I do know, well... I wouldn't call him a friend, but erm... an acquaintance?
Anyway... I feel really guilty! I can't stop thinking about this dream and this person. I feel nothing for this other person... but still find myself thinking about him.

I feel awful. I love my boyfriend. My boyfrined knows it. *oh* *sighs*

Does this dream mean anything? I'm so confused.

dreams like that dont mean anything at all, i dont think. i had sex dreams of other people, but no way wanted to be with them, just wanted to be with the person i was with. i wouldnt worry about it, its just your unconcious doing what it does, and creating bizarre dreams! i seriously wouldnt worry. i know its weird tho hun. xxx

I'm still finding myself thinking about this other person. It's horrible. I feel so bad about it. I feel like I need to make it up to my boyfriend... even though he's hundred's of miles away... I dunno. This is messing me up... along with other things. :(

From what I've read and experienced, most dreams have completely different meanings than what they seem. Especially "sex dreams" and stuff like that...often emotional reflections of day-to-day stuff. I wouldn't stress out about it if you can help it. you said it...you love your boyfriend and would change anything! That's about all the advice I have for now :P. Hope things start looking up...

*hugs*

D'Arcy

hi, i just read this in a magazine and thought of you......
...... dreaming of having an affair: its easy to read this sort of dream literally but they're often simply underlining our personal insecurities - not nessesarily about our current relationship, but a lack of belief or confidence in ourselves. are you constantly thinking that you could be doing more to pep up your life and make it more edgy or exciting? or do you feel that you're not performing to your own or other peoples standards?

sex dreams: these can be a straight forward release of sexual desire. focus on the persons characteristics of the person your having sex with or fancy in the dream. then consider if you need to intergrate those traits into your own personality, or need their qualities to help you. so for example you could dream about a big bloke from a certain bank advert, it could be that you need to become more cuddly and approachable yourself, or you'd like to feel more protected.

hope that helped ease your worrying some. xxx