this guy wont leave me alone and now ive been an uber biAtch *rantish*
 

ok, so i used to work with guy steve at mc'ds while i was working there during summer hols from uni. anyway this was bout 4-5years ago that i worked with him, he was my manager, prob bout 5-10yrs older idk anyway mc'ds was a bit incestuous so everyone went out with everyone apart from me cos ewww i do not do sloppy seconds that you mate has already had

anyway this guy has recently added on facebook and msn...fine. but he comes on and calls me babe, princess and horrible creepy things.
the thing that mainly annoys me is he tries to say things about me being ill. like i say im going back to work....and he goes oh i know how much you've wanted to go back....um no you dont, you dont know anything about me.
and recently he asked me if i was still on medication...ummm funnily enough you dont just take them for 6wks and then your cured. grr

just now he was asking how work was...fine, so i said yeh was good to be back but really tired...he says oh so you still sleeping all the time grr idiot...no im not sleeping all the time cos i am at work, yes im still gonna have naps but i have been tired for years and years. depression is hardly nice to live with, it wears you out!!
so then he asks me about what im doing this wkend so i say im going round friends for dinner with a group of other peeps and then to the pub....and he says good, get yourself back out there.....WTF i may have a mental illness but i am not a ****.....i always see my friends as much as possible just because im not shagging every random guy i meet doesnt mean ive been a complete hermit.

so me getting really pissed off with it, i made an arsey comment back like i have been out..so he said oh sorry didnt mean to offend and i then rant on about how he assumes things about me and mental illness, he patronises me, doesnt listen to me when i say i dont want to date him, im happy to chat to him but that is it....i hate the babe and princess thing, if it was someone that i loved or one of my best friends then fine, i mean when me and shel, loz and trina chat we always call each other names like that but it freaks me out. only you guys on here and my best friends know what ive been through and how they made me feel and know how i am now, i dont like people making assumptions about me.grrrrr!!
but now i have majorly offended him and feel like the biggest UBER biAtch on the planet....but i had to tell him

sorry i ranted a bit...i needed to get it out.....am i over reacting or do you think i did the right thing???
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I'd have done the same thing in your shoes.

I'd have blocked him by now, so you're more patient than me! But yeah, I think you did the right thing.

u did the right thing hun.
he needed to be put right.

xo

Hunni i think you done the right thing, you put him in your place... and you have nothing to feel guilty about...

He sounds like a weirdo anyway...

*squishes*

Claire...

You definitely did the right thing, well done =]
He doesn't sound like the kind of person I would want to talk to
xx

go holly lol
wll sometimes its takes people to be a bit blunt to get people to back off.

ok so log onto msn and my stalker has written "why is it, no matter what i say things get taken the wrong way" how hass he turned this against me so i feel like im the bad person..knob head
x

Good on ya for standing up against him..sounds like he's annoyed you turned him down before and wants another go? Or maybe he is actually trying to be suportive but doesn't know how to go about it..either way you told him how you feel.
I also dislike being called 'babe' and things by guys/random guys who i'm not in a relationship with due to the past so I know kinda how you feel there.

If he continues to annoy you just press the Green msn man with the red circle *nods*

hehe yeh, i mean im always calling people names like bubs, hun,lovey, pumpkin etc, gor shell will know that from personal experience but i dont do it to be creepy. i told him many times that not only do i not want a relationship with him but i dont want one in general atm but he still continues with it and does all like play kisses and just makes me feel uncomfy!!! *shivers*

hey bubbles! hehehe
I love them names you come up with :) they make me smile....and I think I am pretty guilty of writing some pretty silly ones as well but its okay between us but with him and guys like him....ewwwwwwwwwww!!
stupid sleaze bag who can't get the picture! Hrmm and it must be a Mc'Ds things....because I work there *hangs head in shame* (while at uni) and everyone is all incestuous (not me, not me!!!)...and is it madatory to have sleazey managers? ewwwwww shudders
sorry you have to put up with that jerkoff!
I love you my pookie pie...now I'm the only one who can call you that...if he has a problem...he can take it up with me!!
xoxoxox

holy stand up for yourself. just say waht you mean to say
dont tr to be nice about it