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Kestrel 04-07-2008 07:04 PM

URGENT
 
Jacob is planning on ending it.... And i dunno how to talk him out of it... anyone please help!? :crying:

BrightStarShining 04-07-2008 07:30 PM

Is there any way that you can see him?

If there is, see him and talk calmly to him, stay with him as long as possible and if he really is in danger, phone the crisis team or something.. Try talking to him calmly and asking why he wants to end it and give him reasons not to end it..

I'm sorry if this isn't much help,

I hope you and him are ok

take care

xxKirstenxx

Stellata 04-07-2008 07:39 PM

Just keep talking with him. And if need be take him to hospital to speak with someone.
You could also encourage him to call The Samaritans.

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/suicide_prevention.htm

http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/whattodo.htm

Both articles describe how you can best help a suicidal person.

Behind the Smile 04-07-2008 07:41 PM

Keep talking to him.
Let him know how much you care about him.
Samaritans are a good idea too.

Kestrel 04-07-2008 07:58 PM

Thank you all so much, you efforts were greatly appreciated... but I think I have lost him.... thank you everyone...and i'm sorry

Stellata 04-07-2008 08:02 PM

What's happening? Keep talking to us as much as you need, we're here for you.

Bleeding Angel 04-07-2008 08:09 PM

if you are really worried then call the police, its as simple as that.

Kestrel 04-07-2008 08:13 PM

I dont know his adress or anything... I just know his first name.... Hes gone offline... tbh, i doubt im ever gonna talk to him again :(

Thanks everyone....

Stellata 04-07-2008 08:26 PM

I hope that he's ok, and gets the help he needs to help him through this safely.

Bleeding Angel 04-07-2008 08:34 PM

maybe other people will know him if you post his username.

Tinkerbelle 04-07-2008 09:29 PM

Jacob smith141 is his usernane

Tinkerbelle 04-07-2008 11:40 PM

Update about Jacob everyone hes commited suicide

Stellata 05-07-2008 07:03 AM

I'm sorry to hear that. This article from the Samaritans might help anyone who knew Jacob. http://www.samaritans.org/your_emoti...y_suicide.aspx

Kestrel 05-07-2008 10:38 AM

Sorry I couldn't do anymore to help ;_;

Stellata 05-07-2008 10:45 AM

You did what you could.

crazykat 05-07-2008 10:47 AM

*Huge hugs* I am really sorry to hear that, sweetheart don't blame yourself there was nothing more you could have done. Take care and I am here if you need to talk. Take care
Kat xxx

loopylucy08 05-07-2008 07:00 PM

*Hugs*

Im sorry to hear this. I hope that we can get some good community support going for any one on RYL who knew him. LeftforDeadintheDark do not blame yourself, it is not your fault. He probably really appreciated the support you gave him at the end. Please look after yourself now and get some support for your emotions and dealing with it if you need to.

Much love to all on hear who knew him.


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