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'LlyC 03-07-2008 02:50 AM

No Big Deal...Right...?
 
I keep a counter on my cell phone as my background. Everyday The number goes up to show me how far I've come.

Today:
17

This is my eighteenth day without any form of self-abuse


That's the longest I've gone since I started...

Everyone says they're proud of me...But I don't really think it's that big of a deal. It's only 18 days...two and a half weeks... Big deal...

Am I making too light of this? Or are they taking this too seriously? Idk... Just wanted to let everyone know. Thx

BoundNoMore 03-07-2008 02:57 AM

You should be proud.
18 days is an achievement.
Good for you.
*hugs*

sparky_jro 04-07-2008 05:30 AM

Everyday is an achievement, don't short yourself. Every day it gets easier, just do what you have to do to stay strong. If it means posting every day, go for it.

'LlyC 04-07-2008 04:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sparky_jro (Post 896046)
Everyday is an achievement, don't short yourself. Every day it gets easier, just do what you have to do to stay strong. If it means posting every day, go for it.

^.^ --huggles-- Thanks guys

Day Twenty.
The other day was really tough... But thanks to my sister, I got through it. Thank the Lord for her.
My goal is a month...
I can do that...

Right...?

TimesLikeThese 04-07-2008 06:46 PM

It's the small steps that make the difference! :-) Keep it up!

sparky_jro 05-07-2008 08:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 'LlyC (Post 896815)
^.^ --huggles-- Thanks guys

Day Twenty.
The other day was really tough... But thanks to my sister, I got through it. Thank the Lord for her.
My goal is a month...
I can do that...

Right...?

Of course you can do it. Remember that you ares trong and you have people around you that care.

MisterSuperstar 05-07-2008 10:03 PM

Twenty days is an amazing achievement.
And if you want to, you can make it a month.
If you ever need support or someone to chat to, you can PM me.

xx

'LlyC 12-07-2008 06:29 AM

I came so so close to breaking yesterday. I had it all planned out. I was gunna do it. But just before I did it, my idol called. The girl that I have always looked up to for years now, called me. Her and I talked and she truly helped me, just like she always has. I'm so lucky to have her. And I'm so proud of her for overcoming her problems like I am trying to do now.

Day Twenty Seven. Three more days since the one month anneversary of my last cut...

one_step_closer 12-07-2008 01:12 PM

This is a very big deal, well done, you're doing great.

crazykat 12-07-2008 01:15 PM

I agree with the others this is a big deal and something to be proud of

_plastic 12-07-2008 03:27 PM

*_*

Keep it up !!!

Cherrie 14-07-2008 10:36 PM

You are doing SO WELL!!!
You should be so proud of yourself :)
Everyday of quitting is fantastic.
xxx

'LlyC 15-07-2008 04:56 PM

So...Yesterday was my one month. I feel like I just barely made it... But I'm so glad I did. I'm gunna try for three months... So...

One down, Two to go.

CrazyChaoticMess 16-07-2008 05:36 AM

tis and achievement huni, well done *squishes*

emma0891 16-07-2008 07:36 PM

well done!!!! that is so immensly amazing!
i think i speak for nearly everyone that understands how hard it is when i say im proud and i dont even know you!!!!!!!!!
but just reading this post and it has given me a bit of confidence that maybe i can do the same?
who knows
but well done aiming for three months is fantastic, just keep going day by day, you are doing so well,
you know you can do this :)

x

'LlyC 24-07-2008 03:57 AM

Broke.
 
As some of you know, my goal was a month. I made that goal. So I updated it to three months.

At thirty-six days.

I broke.

I'm alright now I guess. I have re-set my goal for 40 days.

Day Three.

Porcelain Child 24-07-2008 03:56 PM

That is great hun...

So proud of you...

Keep going...

*squishes*

'LlyC 04-08-2008 04:55 AM

My doctor set my goal for two months. After that, she think's my anxiety disorder will be cured.

My personal goal is 40 days.

Day Fourteen.



I just got back from Colorful Colorado. On Wednesday, I go in for surgery on my toes. Again. Whoo... [[Sorry for my absence. Past, and Future.]]

snowflake 04-08-2008 02:35 PM

Well done hun! you're doing so well, keep going!
*hugs*

The Stolen One 04-08-2008 07:26 PM

i know it doesnt sound big, but its the starting days that are often the hardest *hugs*
its really good!
keep at it

PM anytime
Caz x


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