having a hard time need help
 

I hate asking for help but riht now i need it i cant cope any more i am going through withdrawl of the two things that made things better cutting and alchol which took the edge off my family is horrible they called me a whore but when i fought back i get in trouble my sister picks at what i eat i get critized for eating but when i dont i get in trouble i cant deal with this shit anymore i am on vaction which was supposed to help me but it made me worse i have no support system the people who are my friends dont help and the people on here i dont think are i am pariod about people talking about me everywhere i go i just wanna die and wish one of those times i did it

Hey Michelle,

I'm sorry I wasn't around for you to talk yesterday, love - but don't feel bad for asking for help. I know I can't really say anything but =P it's okay to ask for help when you need it and I'm really proud of you for making this post.

It's unimaginably easy to get into the bottle to escape problems but I know from experience it can be hard to get out. You can make it easier to ween yourself off this "vice" by sorting out the problems that you try to cover up or cope with by drinking and harming. What kind of feelings drive you to using these coping methods, do you think? And I'm really sorry about the way your family is treating you right now - I have trouble similar to yours also and I hear how it's affecting you right now. Could you sit down and talk to them about how it makes you feel or even speak to a doctor about it? Stay strong and you know where I am if you need me,

xx

Could you talk to your doctor about getting a support system that way?

Im glad you asked for help,, I know how hard it can be to do but well done for reaching out.

Is there a family friend or someone you can confide in about how bad things are with your family?

Take care
xxx

Asking for help can be hard, but its better too. We all find it hard to cope with things and we all need help at some point in our lives, so even though you hate asking for it, if you are really struggling it can help.

What are you struggling with? what do you want to ask help with?

There's nothing wrong with asking for help. Sometimes it's the only thing that saves us.

I need your support telling me stopping this is good for me

hey, sorry i only just say this, *hugs* im here for you if you need a chat sorry things are going really rough for you right now, but you can beat this, you gotta try really hard, but its worth it and we're here to support you

xxx