help..please?
 

Okay, so basically I'm a loser. There's this guy in my grade (yeah I know just teenage drama... whatever) and I really like him, a lot. I always have, and probably always will. He's been one of my best friends since we were six. I've seen him blast through girls, leaving a trail of broken hearts behind him. He's not a "commitment" kind of guy.

We meet up and "have some fun" every once and a while when my parents aren't home and he's not busy. He keeps telling me that he doesn't want a relationship with me but he likes me... I don't know why I keep going back to him. I don't think we will ever be "together"... and he's always with some other girl and I hate seeing him with someone else.

Lately he's been trying to go out with a girl who just got out of a two year relationship... two days after her and her once boyfriend broke up she had sex with the guy I like. She used him and he went running back to her... and I feel like I should have said something to stop him... but I know there was nothing I could have done. I hate watching him with her, because she is just hurting him and dragging him along.

Okay, I'm done rambling... but I guess what I need advice on is should I let him go? Or do I keep with it and hope eventually I get a chance?

~Emily

i'd say be friends but nothing more-keep your distance. if he comes around he comes around but dont wait for him. hopefully he'll come to his sense and stop getting messed about by this girl. sorry you're in such a crappy situation. i know how it feels.
*hugs*

I know how hard it feels, and I don't really know what to suggest, but to tell you my own experience.
I met this guy summer before last and instantly wanted him, he was quite shy, but obviously had this other side to him I was desperate to see...feburary of last year I found the other side, after months of pining over him we started *having some fun* He told me he liked me, he knew I liked him, but it never went any further. One day he jus suddnely turned around n said actually he doesn't want anything with me anymore. We stayed friends, and every few months we did end up *having some fun*. It ws killing me, I had a relationship in one of the few months we didn't do anything, which ended baddly and I went runing back to this guy. Anyway, this kept happeneng and I got hurt mroe and more each time, and then met another guy, who was (and is) absotlutly amazing, we've now been together 6 months and it is goig amazing. I finally got over this other bloke, because I saw that I didn't deserve this crap he was giving me, and that there is so much better out there, just like there is for you sweetie.
All I can say in words of advice is to hang in there, I know you want to keep your friendship strong, so I think it is a good idea to stop the *fun*, and try to move on. (Easier said then done, but don't give up!)
PM me anytime
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