Help...what do i do *sex**pregnancy*
 

My girlfriend is either pregnant or having a misscarrage (2 weeks at most )because of me... why do i f*** up other peoples lives...
i used protection ... sh*t... sh*t.. my parents dont even know im seeing her again... her mom doesent know were going back out altho she knows about the sex aspect.... f*ck... what do i do...

Firstly, you need to calm down, and think this through. How do you feel about your girlfriend? Do you see a relationship in the future? Are you wanting to stay with her if she has a baby? There's a lot of responsibility when it comes to parenting. You need to take all these things into consideration. But mostly, what you need to do is discuss this with your girlfriend. Find out how she feels about the situation. And then you can discuss what you want to do. But if you don't want to stay with her, or aren't ready for parenthood, you need to tell her straight away. It wouldn't be fair for her to rely on you if that was the case.

You need to think about yourself, and each other. Your families, parents, friends... all these people, think about them secondly. It's not their decision, it's yours. So try not to think about what they think too much.

I hope your okay. :-)

X

If you suspect she's having a miscarridge you MUST take her to hospital.

Hi Harmlessbullet,

As previously mentioned, if you suspect she is miscarrying, take her to hospital straight away.

Whatever you both decide to do, she will need to see a doctor soon to confirm the pregnancy, etc. Then from there, start thinking things through. You haven't messed up anyone's life, these things do happen. First priority is making sure it's not a false alarm, she isn't miscarrying and so on. Good luck to you both *hugs*

Chelsea xx

firstly be sure she is pregnant!!
like others hav said if you think she is miscarriging then she needs medical attention!
what is making you think this way??
dont be hard on yourself!xx

one problem
shes in nottingham atm. the misscarriage thing is because of waht her moms experience is.... sharp stabbing pains is what she described... her mom said it sounded like what she had when she had one....

well its best she goes gets checked. her mother should know that.
sharp stabbing pains dont neccessarily mean miscarriage.
it could be many things.
so dont be getting worried til you know.
have her get an appointment ASAP and have everything checked.
doctors do have emergancy appointments!